"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hey guys whats up. this is my first post- i always read, never posted...


i have a gross cold sore on my lip, and my girlfriend (been with her 3 months) wants to see me Thursday night. she goes to my college and will be gone for 40 days since she leaves for home Saturday morning, so thursday and friday are my last days to see her.

If i say i cant see her thursday,but i will friday, she will get really mad cuz shes been waiting to see me.

If i go with this gross thing on my lip, she might get turned off , and i know shes not going to want to kiss me.


What is my better move? not see her and get her mad? or go and let her be grossed out?


Should i put a bandaid on it and say i cut my lip shaving?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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youve been with her 3 months?

you have a cold sore..and you are afraidshe wont be attracted to you?

how old are you?

wtf! im done..Im sorry I want to say hey do this and that.

a ****ing cold sore and you are worried? what the ****...3 months???? doesnt she "love" you by now????
 
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I fart in front of my woman and it's no big deal. You're worried about a stupid cold sore?

Cold sores and farts are a part of life. Deal with them. If you run away from life, you'll have nothing to live for. Either deal with your cold sore or commit suicide.
 
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