"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Need advice! Avoiding break up with girlfriend!
- Thread starter Trance
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So she is gonna have sex with you again?
Otherwise... just try not forget the things that bothered her, and try not do them again in future... and another thing... You have come to a truce now, yes, but in order to avoid something like this happening again in the future, you need to tell her that from this point on, she needs to be 100% open with you on EVERYTHING, and if something is bothering her, then she must tell u right away, and NOT delay and wait untill it gets too much. You need to make it clear to her the IMPORTANCE of communication in a relationship.
Anyways... I'm happy to hear that things worked out well for the 2 of you and i hope that they will in the future too
Go well...Laterz...
"If we dont learn with the past, we are condemned to repeat the same mistakes in the future." - (dunno who said this on TV the other day, but its great)
dearsappho
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Of course shes gonna be pissed. Sheesh!
2 years have gone by since the original post..
And me and the girl are still together.
Since these 2 years:
I broke up with her 2 times
She broke up with me once
During her breakup period i had 3 partners and she had one. I was very jealous of the idea of her being with someone else (why are all men possessive?). I think it was the main thing why we got back together.
After the last breakup 5 months ago, i am again bored as hell of it, and seriously thinking of breaking up for good.
Maybe i still haven't cause she is very atractive, and now i am working since a year ago and dont have that much time to socialize with girls and have many options like i did during college.
Just wanted to share how the things evolved in a LTR, and that i honestly think now that it woulda been better if we didnt get back together when the first drama issues came up, cause we still have a lot of that **** nowdays, and i'd be better without it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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of course it does, it always does with hors!!!!So the girl who confessed she loved you got fvcked, sucked, and plucked another pimp - it was more than one guy kid - it is always more than one!! "But we weren't together" you say? So the hell what!!!! She opened her legs, as hors always do, and other dudes ram-sacked the hor!!!!
I thought you said in your previous post that if she even kissed a dude you would send her to hell??? Now you embrace her and talk lovy dovy shyt to heR AFTER SHE WAS HORING WITH OTHERS??? huh??? If you will send her to hell for kissing another dude then what is the punishment for her getting pummeled by another pimp???????
Don't be loyal or feel obligated to be with hors!!!!! You just don't want to go through all the work of getting another LTR Hor!!! I understand -- most guys think this way!! But I'll guarantee you one thing,, as I posted two years ago - she is getting plucked by other dudes -- guaranteed!!!
Say "No" to loving hos!!!
True true, altough i think you missed my main issue here.
I dont give her any atention at all, even when we go out she stays talking with friends while i am playing pool or poker, and then latter we do sex. Its kind of what's going on.
I dont have feelings anymore, and she realises that i dont feel the same for her, altough she likes to be with me.
So the point here is, based on my current situation (all week working, only friday and saturdays to go out at night), continuing in the kinda "sex buddy" situation while i do whatever i feel like, or no?
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If this is your mindset then you'll be OK!! Never take her seriously - never!!!!Trance said: