"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need advice about girl that said she was having a bad day

Thechamp

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Need advice about girl that said she was having a bad day . I stuffed up last time because I told her to toughen up which made me look like a sounding board , so she comes in my work today , I said how are you She said in ok I didn't give her advice at all , I just teased her about her credit card bouncing , and said if it does you can wash the dishes , she laughs then replies I don't mind washing dishes.

Next thing she's using the lady that works with me as a sounding board , saying she will be leaving in a year so I could hear ,her boyfriends mum died etc. Should i pursue her or not I know she's attracted to me ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thechamp

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Between_The_Lines said:
She works with you then?



No. Find a girl who's into you outside of work.
She works across the road k make her coffee
 

BetterCallSaul

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Thechamp said:
Should i pursue her or not I know she's attracted to me ?

No.
 
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