Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need advice about girl that said she was having a bad day

Thechamp

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Need advice about girl that said she was having a bad day . I stuffed up last time because I told her to toughen up which made me look like a sounding board , so she comes in my work today , I said how are you She said in ok I didn't give her advice at all , I just teased her about her credit card bouncing , and said if it does you can wash the dishes , she laughs then replies I don't mind washing dishes.

Next thing she's using the lady that works with me as a sounding board , saying she will be leaving in a year so I could hear ,her boyfriends mum died etc. Should i pursue her or not I know she's attracted to me ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thechamp

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Between_The_Lines said:
She works with you then?



No. Find a girl who's into you outside of work.
She works across the road k make her coffee
 

BetterCallSaul

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Thechamp said:
Should i pursue her or not I know she's attracted to me ?

No.
 
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