strong like bull
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im really kicking myself in the butt here. im stumped - i have an idea what the answer is, but i cant seem to get there.
heres the situation:
the girl is a sweetheart. as much as this sounds like oneitus, it seems to be true. shes one of the few girls ive met, who actually has morals and ethics. shes young (18) and rarely drinks, doesnt smoke, has an innocent, naive, positive attitude about her.
yes, she is shy. her parents have sheltered her and are very protective - e.g., shes about to turn 19, yet still has a 10 oclock curfew.
things have been progressing forward, but slooooooooowly. it makes me feel like a chump, because every other girl ive hung out with, wed at least make out by the end of the first "date." with this girl...
first date i took her ice skating. had lots of fun, established kino, gave her a hug at her doorstep.
in the few days between that and tonights 2nd date, shed been very receptive. very much willing to set up another get together. very good bodylanguage, etc.
so tonight comes about. originally, i wanted her to come back to my place to watch some movies. she dug it, but her parents didnt. they... strongly preferred, that we hang out at their place instead. no biggie - id rather have that than nothing.
everything went "good." good kino during movie, taking it further than first date... but again, so slow. usually id gotten this far in the first 10 minutes, not after 2hrs of movie watching. you know?
around 10:45, she said id better go. i know her bedtime is around 10pm (lol.. sad but true) and she was tired. i thanked her for having me over, gave her a hug and parted.
so thats that. but the fun part? the part that makes this REALLY interesting? i work with her! in fact, ill be seeing her tomorrow morning. not really sure how to handle that. i work in a laid-back restaurant where we have a lot of fun (kind of like Fridays), so its not a strict corporate office. in other words, fooling around wouldnt be an issue. no one would be fired or anything like that.
the problem tho is that, normally, i wouldnt see a girl again until were going out another night. im tempted to make a move on her there. something exciting, to spark her interest; like pulling her into a hidden room and kissing her. lol, dont know if she'll go for it tho.
i dunno. i feel that i need to step up and progress a little faster. even tho shes shy, i understand that if i dont take action to make it intimate, she'll lose interest. im on a short time-frame, too. from july 5th - 13th ill be out of state. then later in the month she'll be gone, too. so id like to establish some good vibes before we part ways for a month.
bah. i feel a bit lost. i could use some advice.
thanks in advance,
SLB.
heres the situation:
the girl is a sweetheart. as much as this sounds like oneitus, it seems to be true. shes one of the few girls ive met, who actually has morals and ethics. shes young (18) and rarely drinks, doesnt smoke, has an innocent, naive, positive attitude about her.
yes, she is shy. her parents have sheltered her and are very protective - e.g., shes about to turn 19, yet still has a 10 oclock curfew.
things have been progressing forward, but slooooooooowly. it makes me feel like a chump, because every other girl ive hung out with, wed at least make out by the end of the first "date." with this girl...
first date i took her ice skating. had lots of fun, established kino, gave her a hug at her doorstep.
in the few days between that and tonights 2nd date, shed been very receptive. very much willing to set up another get together. very good bodylanguage, etc.
so tonight comes about. originally, i wanted her to come back to my place to watch some movies. she dug it, but her parents didnt. they... strongly preferred, that we hang out at their place instead. no biggie - id rather have that than nothing.
everything went "good." good kino during movie, taking it further than first date... but again, so slow. usually id gotten this far in the first 10 minutes, not after 2hrs of movie watching. you know?
around 10:45, she said id better go. i know her bedtime is around 10pm (lol.. sad but true) and she was tired. i thanked her for having me over, gave her a hug and parted.
so thats that. but the fun part? the part that makes this REALLY interesting? i work with her! in fact, ill be seeing her tomorrow morning. not really sure how to handle that. i work in a laid-back restaurant where we have a lot of fun (kind of like Fridays), so its not a strict corporate office. in other words, fooling around wouldnt be an issue. no one would be fired or anything like that.
the problem tho is that, normally, i wouldnt see a girl again until were going out another night. im tempted to make a move on her there. something exciting, to spark her interest; like pulling her into a hidden room and kissing her. lol, dont know if she'll go for it tho.
i dunno. i feel that i need to step up and progress a little faster. even tho shes shy, i understand that if i dont take action to make it intimate, she'll lose interest. im on a short time-frame, too. from july 5th - 13th ill be out of state. then later in the month she'll be gone, too. so id like to establish some good vibes before we part ways for a month.
bah. i feel a bit lost. i could use some advice.
thanks in advance,
SLB.
