"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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need advanced help with banging ex-profeesional NFL cheerleader at my gym

Dr_Zhivago

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Gym Talk...

Dear guys:

This is all very interesting to me because I am an RAFC :p And I would just like to thank everyone for all the posts related to SinRod's "quest" at the gym.

Of one thing, we can all be sure: the gym has lots of hot, gorgeous women flocking to it. That's the good news.... the bad news is: I find it hard to talk to chicks when A) I look like a sweat-box and 2) I'm trying to get my psyche up to bench-press 225 lbs. as many times as I can... and also juggling how I can Sarge that gorgeous 36-24-36 biatch over there.... ??

I would like to see more posts on guys' experiences at the gym. Maybe there's a hand-book for undertaking such a challenge as "how to score with chicks at the Gym."

Thanks for all the critiquing and advice you DJs show.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dr_Zhivago said:
Maybe there's a hand-book for undertaking such a challenge as "how to score with chicks at the Gym."
Look for threads made by me with the word gym in the search function. The e-hand-book is coming.

When you asked her about the smoothie or thing, you could have followed with an aloof "ok, what's your phone number?" In a "by the way... what's your. . . " tone. Assuming it, don't give expalanations on what the cellphone is for.

I'll make a hard effort in finally ending that ultimate gym thread.

Any new update? Have you seen her?, etc?
 
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