"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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need advanced help with banging ex-profeesional NFL cheerleader at my gym

Dr_Zhivago

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Gym Talk...

Dear guys:

This is all very interesting to me because I am an RAFC :p And I would just like to thank everyone for all the posts related to SinRod's "quest" at the gym.

Of one thing, we can all be sure: the gym has lots of hot, gorgeous women flocking to it. That's the good news.... the bad news is: I find it hard to talk to chicks when A) I look like a sweat-box and 2) I'm trying to get my psyche up to bench-press 225 lbs. as many times as I can... and also juggling how I can Sarge that gorgeous 36-24-36 biatch over there.... ??

I would like to see more posts on guys' experiences at the gym. Maybe there's a hand-book for undertaking such a challenge as "how to score with chicks at the Gym."

Thanks for all the critiquing and advice you DJs show.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dr_Zhivago said:
Maybe there's a hand-book for undertaking such a challenge as "how to score with chicks at the Gym."
Look for threads made by me with the word gym in the search function. The e-hand-book is coming.

When you asked her about the smoothie or thing, you could have followed with an aloof "ok, what's your phone number?" In a "by the way... what's your. . . " tone. Assuming it, don't give expalanations on what the cellphone is for.

I'll make a hard effort in finally ending that ultimate gym thread.

Any new update? Have you seen her?, etc?
 
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