"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need Action date that costs little or no money

alphamale1

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Hey Guys

Ive had coffee with this chick and i want to get together with her and she is ok with that.

I said for her to come shopping with me and I told her that I didnt have any credit on my phone so I asked her to call me on late wed thurs.

although I realise I dont have any money cos i need my money to re register my car. sucks

So i guess I need a action date which costs nothing.
She both work in the same suburb and we dont work for the same company which is cool but she lives about 1 and a half away from work and i live about half an hour away from work.

What do u's suggest for date?
Ben
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Centaurion

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hiking would be cool. bring along a piknik-lunch and you got yourself a sweet action-date.
 

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Meet up at some shopping center or in a street with many shops, go for a big walk and pretend you need to check out some clothes for yourself. After that head out somewhere else (you need a car) like a beach or a park etc.
The idea is to venue change as much as possible while having fun. Throughoiut the whole enteraction do routines, stories and up the kino.

The last place is your isolation.
 

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Go Bowling they have alcohol there see if she wants to have a drink and a game of bowling. I took a date there last week and we had a blast I was teaching her all my moves and showing her how to throw the ball. After a couple of games we were making out more than playing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JT47319

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Set up action dates that are near your place.

Meet and go somewhere really local. A picnic at a playground for instant. If you live near the beach, maybe a little bit of volleyball or whatever.

The key here is that everytime you're done with the mini-date, go back to your place, change, whatever, ESCALATE THE KINO, and then go onto your next action date.

Even though it's ONE BIG DATE, each mini-date, in essence, acts like a whole new date in the unconscious mind of your girl. It distorts time so that the more you do things, the more it seems like she's known you. And each time you go back to your place for a breather, you escalate and escalate until you get the Full Monty.
 
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