“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm 6'1", and about 190 lbs. I don't have much muscle on me - if you took out about 20 lbs of fat, I'd be skinny. I want to work towards a Bruce Lee body type (lean and muscular, but not bulky). I'm not saying my goal is to have a body as good as his, just that body type.

What sort of training program would you recommend for this? I imagine that power lifting would add bulk, so I'll probably want to avoid that. I also want to have some cardio because I'm in overall bad shape right now.

Below is what I'm thinking of. All weights exercises are 3 sets of 10. Let me know what you think.

Mon - Fri: abs - several unweighted exercises I got from Schwarzenegger's Encyclopedia of Modern bodybuilding. They alternate upper/lower abs and different parts of the obliques each day.

Mon/Thurs: legs/back - leg press, leg extension, calf raises, seated cable row, bent over row, lat pull down.

Tues/Fri: arms/chest - dumbell pectoral flyes (bench press instead if there is someone around to spot me), deltoid flyes, bicep curls, backward tricep flyes, forearm curls, shoulder shrugs.

Wed: cardio day - practicing karate and 30 min stationary bike or jog on treadmill.

I'm not going to make many changes to my diet. Basically I'll eliminate all junk foods except beer and try to only eat at meal times. I'll also make sure I eat breakfast every day.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Beer? Good bloody god. Beer and leanness don't compute with me.

Legs and back on the same day? Mate, look around the site for a decent 3- or 2- day split...
 

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send me a pm man
 

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nah stick with what youve got jsut arrange it differently

hit everything 2x a week, jsut change stuff around

a couple good splits ive used are as follows

chest/back
rest
arms/shoulders
legs
rest
chest / back
rest

chest/back
arms shoulders
legs
chest back
arms shoulders
rest
rest

or chest/tris
back/ bis / shoulders
legs
rest
repeat
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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