"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

need a workout plan

humiliator

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2004
Messages
53
Reaction score
0
Location
Seattle
I'm 6'1", and about 190 lbs. I don't have much muscle on me - if you took out about 20 lbs of fat, I'd be skinny. I want to work towards a Bruce Lee body type (lean and muscular, but not bulky). I'm not saying my goal is to have a body as good as his, just that body type.

What sort of training program would you recommend for this? I imagine that power lifting would add bulk, so I'll probably want to avoid that. I also want to have some cardio because I'm in overall bad shape right now.

Below is what I'm thinking of. All weights exercises are 3 sets of 10. Let me know what you think.

Mon - Fri: abs - several unweighted exercises I got from Schwarzenegger's Encyclopedia of Modern bodybuilding. They alternate upper/lower abs and different parts of the obliques each day.

Mon/Thurs: legs/back - leg press, leg extension, calf raises, seated cable row, bent over row, lat pull down.

Tues/Fri: arms/chest - dumbell pectoral flyes (bench press instead if there is someone around to spot me), deltoid flyes, bicep curls, backward tricep flyes, forearm curls, shoulder shrugs.

Wed: cardio day - practicing karate and 30 min stationary bike or jog on treadmill.

I'm not going to make many changes to my diet. Basically I'll eliminate all junk foods except beer and try to only eat at meal times. I'll also make sure I eat breakfast every day.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Warboss Alex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 7, 2005
Messages
4,113
Reaction score
29
Beer? Good bloody god. Beer and leanness don't compute with me.

Legs and back on the same day? Mate, look around the site for a decent 3- or 2- day split...
 

EFFORT

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 17, 2003
Messages
2,115
Reaction score
45
Location
USA
send me a pm man
 

vanwilder

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 15, 2005
Messages
259
Reaction score
0
Location
calgary canada
nah stick with what youve got jsut arrange it differently

hit everything 2x a week, jsut change stuff around

a couple good splits ive used are as follows

chest/back
rest
arms/shoulders
legs
rest
chest / back
rest

chest/back
arms shoulders
legs
chest back
arms shoulders
rest
rest

or chest/tris
back/ bis / shoulders
legs
rest
repeat
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Top