"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What does it mean when you have a woman ask you:

"What are you doing tonight?"

and

"Why arent you going out tonight?"

and

"Me and my friends are going to club toight do you want to meet us..."?

Ive encountered this a couple times and i was wondering what the suggested responses to this are....

Thx
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by sustainable007
What does it mean when you have a woman ask you:

"What are you doing tonight?"

and

"Why arent you going out tonight?"

and

"Me and my friends are going to club toight do you want to meet us..."?

Ive encountered this a couple times and i was wondering what the suggested responses to this are....

Thx
in all cases, it means she's fairly interested in you. I wouldn't read too much into them tho, even if u can
 
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She is trying to ask you "How come you are not romantically pursuing women in general, and me in particular!"
 

tactic

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It depends on the girl... So what if girls ask you what you are doing tonight... Not like she wants you to go with her anywhere tonight does she? How long have you known this girl or is more than one girl?
 
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