"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What does it mean when you have a woman ask you:

"What are you doing tonight?"

and

"Why arent you going out tonight?"

and

"Me and my friends are going to club toight do you want to meet us..."?

Ive encountered this a couple times and i was wondering what the suggested responses to this are....

Thx
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by sustainable007
What does it mean when you have a woman ask you:

"What are you doing tonight?"

and

"Why arent you going out tonight?"

and

"Me and my friends are going to club toight do you want to meet us..."?

Ive encountered this a couple times and i was wondering what the suggested responses to this are....

Thx
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in all cases, it means she's fairly interested in you. I wouldn't read too much into them tho, even if u can
 
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She is trying to ask you "How come you are not romantically pursuing women in general, and me in particular!"
 
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tactic

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It depends on the girl... So what if girls ask you what you are doing tonight... Not like she wants you to go with her anywhere tonight does she? How long have you known this girl or is more than one girl?
 
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