"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need a tighter condom

guitaronfire411

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I went through the condom posts and once read that Magnums are the tightest and most likely to prevent bustin' a nut early. Can anyone attest to that?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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search1ng

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how the hell does one know what condom to use anyway. Is it written on the back?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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If your around 7 inches or longer a magnum will fit you. And yes for me they fit tight. For trojans helping you last longer.. I dont think so.

Just buy different condoms and try em on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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guitaronfire411

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I was using Durex Pleasure Max at the time but I wasn't really feeling anything. It was my first time ever and I busted soon after speeding up.

I was thinking of wearing two condoms next time so it's much tighter.
 

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I don't think tighter condoms keep you from busting. If anything, they increase sensation and lead to you busting earlier if you lack control.
 

Aragon034

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Magnums aren't for length, Mags are for girth :p

pretty much all condoms you roll out go up to like 7 inches or something. but magnums are 15% bigger in terms of girth than regular condoms. Hell, there's even MagXL which is 25% if i recall correctly.

i've tried all three and found regular too tight and it would chafe (not fun), mags were comfy and tight enough to not fall off (though i don't use the trojan ones, i've had bad experiences with trojan, Durex all the way!) and the MagXL fit, but was too loose and would pop off in the middle of thrusting.

as far as lasting longer, you could get one of those condoms with the numbing agent inside. or if it's the opposite you want, get teh thinner ones (usually called thinsations or something)
 
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