"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need a tighter condom

guitaronfire411

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I went through the condom posts and once read that Magnums are the tightest and most likely to prevent bustin' a nut early. Can anyone attest to that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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search1ng

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how the hell does one know what condom to use anyway. Is it written on the back?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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If your around 7 inches or longer a magnum will fit you. And yes for me they fit tight. For trojans helping you last longer.. I dont think so.

Just buy different condoms and try em on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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guitaronfire411

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I was using Durex Pleasure Max at the time but I wasn't really feeling anything. It was my first time ever and I busted soon after speeding up.

I was thinking of wearing two condoms next time so it's much tighter.
 

FairShake

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I don't think tighter condoms keep you from busting. If anything, they increase sensation and lead to you busting earlier if you lack control.
 

Aragon034

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Magnums aren't for length, Mags are for girth :p

pretty much all condoms you roll out go up to like 7 inches or something. but magnums are 15% bigger in terms of girth than regular condoms. Hell, there's even MagXL which is 25% if i recall correctly.

i've tried all three and found regular too tight and it would chafe (not fun), mags were comfy and tight enough to not fall off (though i don't use the trojan ones, i've had bad experiences with trojan, Durex all the way!) and the MagXL fit, but was too loose and would pop off in the middle of thrusting.

as far as lasting longer, you could get one of those condoms with the numbing agent inside. or if it's the opposite you want, get teh thinner ones (usually called thinsations or something)
 
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