"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need a smooth line to break the ice

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Theres this girl in my english class, and shes banging. I want her number but idk what to say to her. I need something smoove and funny to say to break the ice and get the number. Shes new and i don't want no other guys getting her before me.

We havent said one word to each other and i dont want to look like a creep going up to her like "wats yo numba". Whats a smooth line i can use?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Are your feet sore? 'Cause you've been running through my mind all day."
 

Who Dares Win

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bradd80 said:
next time you see her checking her cell phone ask her if she's playing pac-man always works for me
Thats a good one althought most young b1tches dont know holy characters like pac-man, I do something similar however, I ask her how many guys are writing at her.

Its not a free access to her but automatically put me in an other category of all those guys who avoid even remotely sexual topics.
 

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Similar to these cellphone lines i thought of one like last week >>When i see her on her cellphone i would be like " why you don't ever text me" and shes like 'cause i dont have your number". So i go "well i was just about to give it to you", or "well heres my number"

The fcked up thing is i NEVER see her on her cellphone. shes seem like a goody too shoes who follows the school rules. And for some reason SHES ALWAYS IN A RUSH

Whats an alternative since shes never on her phone?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Hello" always works good...
 

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Your in class together so why don't you break the ice by talking about that.
 

Hate the game..

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You: I need a female opinion on something.
Her: K
You: What is your favorite corny pickup line?
Her: I don't know uhhh
You: Here's mine

"How much does a polar bear weigh? Enough to break the ice. I'm {insert name}."


Works every time
 

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If your in a bar or something and she's drinking something with ice, go, get an ice block from her drink and smash it on the ground. Then say "now that we broke the ice, can I buy you the next drink?"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Keep it simple.. no need to make it hard. Just sit down near her, lean over, and say "Hey, I don't think I've spoken to you before, what's your name?" and carry the conversation from there. You are in a class together, it's completely natural (or it should be).
 

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If she's one of those rushers that is quick in quick out, it's a lil tough. You just gotta sit next to her and talk shop about the class, it's your best bet.
 

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Dongslap her.
Just walk up, flop it out, and.... BAM!!!!!! MUSHROOM TATTOO!!!!

*NOW THAT'S ALPhA*
 

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If you have to run to an internet forum to ask how to open up with this one girl, what are you gonna do when you meet another hot girl? Hit that "new thread" button again?
 
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