need a second opinion

[Sansj]

Hi.

Could someone give me a second opinion on my ongoing fling? It`s either girl logic or i am not getting it.

There is a girl iv just started flirting with. You could say I just noticed her. She has been into me for some time from what I can guess.

This is what I need your help with: Convo

- Random talk ... .... .... ...
-(me)You should join the first "outside" beer of the season on Wednesday, if you're not working.
-(her) Yes
-(her)I`ve already taken the first "out" beer of the season.
-(her) But, i am totally up for a second one.

Some days later we talk agen

-Random banter ..... .... ....
-(her) I have to go. Got do some work do.
-(her) Beer tomorrow?
-(me) Indeed,
-(me) start around 6 ish.
-(her) ahhhh. I am at work then.
-(her) I may join after work.
-(me) yeah. Let me know.
-(her) ofc

A girl's "maybe" usually means no.. or she might have thought it was only going to be us two haning out

The reason im asking is that I either stick around in the city for tomorrow or go home for the holidays. Don't want to miss my chances.

Any idea?

 

[Swampcamel]

Force a commitment, or make her the smaller priority and go home for the holidays. Don't be waiting on a "maybe," this comes off like you don't have things going on in your life or anything better to do than wait for a chance. It can also come off as desperate to hang out.

 

[pdx1138]

^^ This