"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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need a second opinion

Sansj

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Hi.

Could someone give me a second opinion on my ongoing fling? It`s either girl logic or i am not getting it.

There is a girl iv just started flirting with. You could say I just noticed her. She has been into me for some time from what I can guess.

This is what I need your help with: Convo

- Random talk ... .... .... ...
-(me)You should join the first "outside" beer of the season on Wednesday, if you're not working.
-(her) Yes :D
-(her)I`ve already taken the first "out" beer of the season.
-(her) But, i am totally up for a second one.

Some days later we talk agen

-Random banter ..... .... ....
-(her) I have to go. Got do some work do.
-(her) Beer tomorrow?
-(me) Indeed,
-(me) start around 6 ish.
-(her) ahhhh. I am at work then.
-(her) I may join after work.
-(me) yeah. Let me know.
-(her) ofc

A girl's "maybe" usually means no.. or she might have thought it was only going to be us two haning out

The reason im asking is that I either stick around in the city for tomorrow or go home for the holidays. Don't want to miss my chances.

Any idea?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Swampcamel

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Force a commitment, or make her the smaller priority and go home for the holidays. Don't be waiting on a "maybe," this comes off like you don't have things going on in your life or anything better to do than wait for a chance. It can also come off as desperate to hang out.
 
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