"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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onemorerobot

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I just got done talking with a girl on msn. We've known each other for a couple of years. Anyway, she had to go lie down because her back is hurting, but she told me if i wanted to continue our conversation that I'd have to call her. I asked her why she couldn't call me herself and if her hand was broken. She said it wasn't and that I could continue the conversation by myself if I'd like. I said ok. So should I call her? Should I let her wait a little while?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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amoka

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I wouldn't call her, at least not immediately. Well, it all depends on what you were chatting about initially. If you're one of her girlfriend, you better call her now. Else that girl-friendship will damage....
 

onemorerobot

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We were talking about "nice" guys and "pussies". Actually, her exact words were "if you want to continue the pusssy talk".
 

Derek Flint

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I'd tell her I'll call her when she drops the "princess" attitude.
 
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She is right -- why even chat online for a few years!! :rolleyes: You want to see them in person!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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