Need a quick answer

[mackdaddy27]

This girl , second time I called her and we're chatting. trying to build comfort

She says shes going to be in my town, so before I could ask if she could met up...

She says shes going to call me back but doens't. shes busy meeting a lot of her SOCIAL CIRCLE which I AM NOT PART OF


Obviously, this might be a blow off, because she is busy.


I really want to talk to her again.

SHOULD I text her now, saying " MY phone was off, i don't know if you called or now... can you chat now ?"

OR

SHOULD I WAIT UNTil tomorrow so she forget that she blew me off ?



PLEASe advise quick I only have 2 hours left before

 

[DonJuan11]

This girl , second time I called her and we're chatting. trying to build comfort

She says shes going to be in my town, so before I could ask if she could met up...

She says shes going to call me back but doens't. shes busy meeting a lot of her SOCIAL CIRCLE which I AM NOT PART OF


Obviously, this might be a blow off, because she is busy.


I really want to talk to her again.

SHOULD I text her now, saying " MY phone was off, i don't know if you called or now... can you chat now ?"

OR

SHOULD I WAIT UNTil tomorrow so she forget that she blew me off ?



PLEASe advise quick I only have 2 hours left before

Call her if you have something specific in mind to do with her. Don't call her to say "Can I hang out with you when you're in town?"

 

[Interceptor]

Call her if you have something specific in mind to do with her. Don't call her to say "Can I hang out with you when you're in town?"

Correct.
Do not send her that txt message.

And do not call if you adont have something specific as a backup to go to.

You: "Hey, what are you up to? I was going to go to XYZ for a little while."
Shut up , see what she says.

She may say :" Come and join us."
or not.
be prepared for her answer.


Whatever it is. Go out anyway. Even if its to the bookstore or whatever.


Dont become desperate or needy, and dont get angry at her.


Call her, dont txther this time.

 

[mackdaddy27]

excellent advice.

but its too late. I texted her.

Only because I didn't want to be forceful and make her run away so i always have a chance to call her tomorrow ..

but at the same time, i was really made sure not sound desperate in my txt message.

 

[MooseGod]

Should have just told her you'll probably be at XYZ bar with your friends, and she's welcome to come up there...but she must act now, quantities are limited.

 

[mackdaddy27]

quantities are limited.

what do you mean by that?