"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJinTraining06

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Hey guys, need a quick answer to my question cuz i'm leaving work to meet a girl at 6, its now 4:41. We met on match.com last sat afternoon, had coffee and took a walk for 2 hrs after, long walk. it was her area so she led it. I assumed from this that she liked me and it turned out she does, cuz she texted me that night to thank me for coming and that she had "so much fun wit me". Ok so now tonite, were meeting in the city - NYC that is. Not sure if we should do drinks,dinner, or both. I assume dinner makes sense cuz its at 6. Should i say drinks first, or dinner rfirst? I wanna act confident and be the man ya know, lead her to where were goin. I dontwant her to think im indecisive and wussy. Also, at the end of the night should i kiss her? Iknow ur all gonna yell at me and say duh of ocurse, but its in manhattan, and its not like were gonna be in my car or somehwere private, should i do it, and if so when?

please respond quick leavin in 15 mins.
thanks!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I wonder if he's turned into a pumpkin yet... ;)
 
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When it comes to being decisive, it doesn't matter what you decide as long as you decide something and then go with it.
 
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