"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DJinTraining06

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Hey guys, need a quick answer to my question cuz i'm leaving work to meet a girl at 6, its now 4:41. We met on match.com last sat afternoon, had coffee and took a walk for 2 hrs after, long walk. it was her area so she led it. I assumed from this that she liked me and it turned out she does, cuz she texted me that night to thank me for coming and that she had "so much fun wit me". Ok so now tonite, were meeting in the city - NYC that is. Not sure if we should do drinks,dinner, or both. I assume dinner makes sense cuz its at 6. Should i say drinks first, or dinner rfirst? I wanna act confident and be the man ya know, lead her to where were goin. I dontwant her to think im indecisive and wussy. Also, at the end of the night should i kiss her? Iknow ur all gonna yell at me and say duh of ocurse, but its in manhattan, and its not like were gonna be in my car or somehwere private, should i do it, and if so when?

please respond quick leavin in 15 mins.
thanks!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I wonder if he's turned into a pumpkin yet... ;)
 
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When it comes to being decisive, it doesn't matter what you decide as long as you decide something and then go with it.
 
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