When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
thanks !splinterkb said:I would recommend holding off until tomorrow.. or atleast wait until the night time when you can be sure that everyone is done with their family events. Calling during the day would show poor taste, and you probably wouldnt get any answers. It is mainly a holiday to get together with your faimly, so you should chill for a bit.
I don't know, I disagree. I mean, the best part about holiday's when it comes to calling numbers is that you don't even need to think of a reason to call. It's a holiday.splinterkb said:I would recommend holding off until tomorrow.. or atleast wait until the night time when you can be sure that everyone is done with their family events. Calling during the day would show poor taste, and you probably wouldnt get any answers. It is mainly a holiday to get together with your faimly, so you should chill for a bit.
True.. but it will also show that you're disconnected from your family, and I wouldn't want to be interrupted if I was with my family members that I don't get to see much. Yes it does give you a reason to call, but you will always have a reason to call. The reason being you're interested.. Noone calls someone just to tell them Happy Easter.thederekeffect1 said:I don't know, I disagree. I mean, the best part about holiday's when it comes to calling numbers is that you don't even need to think of a reason to call. It's a holiday.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think your talking about ONS.sherineo said:no offence meant here...
but I find that a little desperate....
why do you need to call anyone...easter or whatever...
just relax..laid back...go out ...chicks are almost everywhere
mcpwn said:txt them "merry christmas"