Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
thanks !splinterkb said:I would recommend holding off until tomorrow.. or atleast wait until the night time when you can be sure that everyone is done with their family events. Calling during the day would show poor taste, and you probably wouldnt get any answers. It is mainly a holiday to get together with your faimly, so you should chill for a bit.
I don't know, I disagree. I mean, the best part about holiday's when it comes to calling numbers is that you don't even need to think of a reason to call. It's a holiday.splinterkb said:I would recommend holding off until tomorrow.. or atleast wait until the night time when you can be sure that everyone is done with their family events. Calling during the day would show poor taste, and you probably wouldnt get any answers. It is mainly a holiday to get together with your faimly, so you should chill for a bit.
True.. but it will also show that you're disconnected from your family, and I wouldn't want to be interrupted if I was with my family members that I don't get to see much. Yes it does give you a reason to call, but you will always have a reason to call. The reason being you're interested.. Noone calls someone just to tell them Happy Easter.thederekeffect1 said:I don't know, I disagree. I mean, the best part about holiday's when it comes to calling numbers is that you don't even need to think of a reason to call. It's a holiday.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I think your talking about ONS.sherineo said:no offence meant here...
but I find that a little desperate....
why do you need to call anyone...easter or whatever...
just relax..laid back...go out ...chicks are almost everywhere
mcpwn said:txt them "merry christmas"