"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need a Quick Answer: calling #s on Easter

mackdaddy27

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Is it okay to call up numbers on Easter?


I am not familiar with the holiday is it more a family type of holiday and therefore

its a matter of bad timing and/or poor taste to call on that day?



thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would recommend holding off until tomorrow.. or atleast wait until the night time when you can be sure that everyone is done with their family events. Calling during the day would show poor taste, and you probably wouldnt get any answers. It is mainly a holiday to get together with your faimly, so you should chill for a bit.
 

mackdaddy27

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splinterkb said:
I would recommend holding off until tomorrow.. or atleast wait until the night time when you can be sure that everyone is done with their family events. Calling during the day would show poor taste, and you probably wouldnt get any answers. It is mainly a holiday to get together with your faimly, so you should chill for a bit.
thanks !
 

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splinterkb said:
I would recommend holding off until tomorrow.. or atleast wait until the night time when you can be sure that everyone is done with their family events. Calling during the day would show poor taste, and you probably wouldnt get any answers. It is mainly a holiday to get together with your faimly, so you should chill for a bit.
I don't know, I disagree. I mean, the best part about holiday's when it comes to calling numbers is that you don't even need to think of a reason to call. It's a holiday.
 

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thederekeffect1 said:
I don't know, I disagree. I mean, the best part about holiday's when it comes to calling numbers is that you don't even need to think of a reason to call. It's a holiday.
True.. but it will also show that you're disconnected from your family, and I wouldn't want to be interrupted if I was with my family members that I don't get to see much. Yes it does give you a reason to call, but you will always have a reason to call. The reason being you're interested.. Noone calls someone just to tell them Happy Easter.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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no offence meant here...

but I find that a little desperate....

why do you need to call anyone...easter or whatever...

just relax..laid back...go out ...chicks are almost everywhere
 

mackdaddy27

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sherineo said:
no offence meant here...

but I find that a little desperate....

why do you need to call anyone...easter or whatever...

just relax..laid back...go out ...chicks are almost everywhere
I think your talking about ONS.

that sounds good. but your 'alpha mindset' attempt to rewrite dating literature iseems abrupt to a newbie like myself. I appreciate the good answer, but it would be off course. I m just trying to make 1 success and will take it from there
 
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