"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need a new job!

AC/DC

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I make minimum wage at the mall, working in retail. Fun job, but I want to finance a car, and move out before next Christmas.

Recommend me ANY job where I can make good money. I'm 18, and I'm mobile cuz I drive.I'm considered busy restaurants so I can make bank off of tips.. any ideas?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Waiter can be a very good job depending on the restaurant. If you go that route, pick something with ~ $8 - $10 plate meals that has quick turnaround.

A lot of people try to go the route of the high class restaurant, but even though you get better tips per table you end up with less tables over the course of your shift.

I'd recommend getting into sales though. It fits nicely into the DJ mentality, and if you start young you can work yourself into a hell of a nice career.

Lookup job fairs in your city, most of them will have some entry level sales jobs. Work one of those for a few years and then transition into selling a bit higher level product.
 

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JC9 said:
Waiter can be a very good job depending on the restaurant. If you go that route, pick something with ~ $8 - $10 plate meals that has quick turnaround.

A lot of people try to go the route of the high class restaurant, but even though you get better tips per table you end up with less tables over the course of your shift.

I'd recommend getting into sales though. It fits nicely into the DJ mentality, and if you start young you can work yourself into a hell of a nice career.

Lookup job fairs in your city, most of them will have some entry level sales jobs. Work one of those for a few years and then transition into selling a bit higher level product.
Any examples?
 

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Definitely in agreement on the waiting tables thing, especially at a high-volume restaurant.
Great way to earn better than min wage, and definitely good for polishing the ol' social skills.
One hint: think hard about how you'd like to be treated as a customer, and do exactly that for the patrons at your table.
 

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u could get a job at chotchkies but u hafta wear at least 15 pieces of flair
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You have retail experience, and someone suggested sales, so try retail sales. There are many jobs that are base + commission. I'd start by looking at stores that sell items that you know the most about or that represent your own hobies and interests. If you keep building on sales skills, these skills will help you get other jobs later in life. Every business involves sales at some level, and employers like to hire people who are experienced at talking the customer out of his money.

Waiting tables can also make you money, but keep in mind that you often have to start out as lower-level kitchen staff like cook or dishwasher to get restaurant experience. AF worked at a fancy restaurant as a waiter, and I read the training guide they gave him. It's mostly about your sales skills. You make about twice as much money as a waiter if you can convince people to order alcohol and dessert.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=98371&highlight="assume+sale"
 

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Why dont u try acting?? Move on to hollywood and sign up for couple of audition, who knows maybe someone will take u! And u will make good cash for acting in theaters! And if u get to be in the commercials, thats where the real cash comes up. Then u can act and do whatever u want, like fix cars, race, or whatever u do. And try working waiter like JC9 said. My bro used to work here in NEW YORK, he made about 150$ a day plus tips. It is hard being a waiter though.
 
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