"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need a new job!

AC/DC

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I'm 18, physically able to work, and I'm mentally equipped to handle anything.

I go to community college mon-thursday, 10:30- 1:15, aside from taht I'm always available.

My goal is to save enough for a down payment on a $12,000 used car. Credit began two months ago. I want to save about $5000 as QUICKLY as humanly possible. I currently work retail in a local mall for $6.75, as it's my first job. Work about 50 hours in 2 weeks, so paycheck is about $330... NOT CUTTING IT. I have to pay gas, and cell phone bill, and I eat alot yet Im somehow looking great. It's not that I have horrible saving and spending habits, but I simply don't make enough to save aside from basic needs.

Any ideas? Recommend me something, it doesn't have to be permanent. No, I'm not cool for selling drugs.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bar work buddy...

Your best bet is to get some bar work, even though I hear your wages are **** in America I know some friends of mine who have gone to the USA and made a 1000 dollars plus p/w as waiters/bartenders.
 

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Hands-on work
like bars/restraunts or a building site or something, thats where the fast summer job money is at here
 

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So you guys would recommend restaurant work? Minimum wage plus maybe $40 tips per night.. that's definitely good...
 
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