"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need a Mentor/Coach, Will Pay

PersistenceIsKey

Don Juan
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Hey guys, if you know of any legit coaches, let me know.

Also, if YOU are an experienced, well rounded and personable guy who believes he is capable of teaching/coaching on real life situations and issues, PM me with your qualifications. Someone who has had a lot of social experience and is around 22-30/went to college would be optimal.

I've used coaching to overcome many challenges, including things in my professional life. I think the same logic can be applied to social life.

My personal background:

I'm a college student (Asian) in my second year. Struggling socially. I'm honestly not the worst. In fact I'm actually somewhere around average. And that's the problem; I want to be the BEST.

Strengths:

Independently wealthy for my age
Willing to go out of my comfort zone to improve
Focused
Driven
Analytical
Relatively intelligent
Dress well
Work out, though not where I want to be yet

Weaknesses:

General Social Skills
Conversation
Women
Basically everything this forum teaches


Thank you
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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