"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys, if you know of any legit coaches, let me know.

Also, if YOU are an experienced, well rounded and personable guy who believes he is capable of teaching/coaching on real life situations and issues, PM me with your qualifications. Someone who has had a lot of social experience and is around 22-30/went to college would be optimal.

I've used coaching to overcome many challenges, including things in my professional life. I think the same logic can be applied to social life.

My personal background:

I'm a college student (Asian) in my second year. Struggling socially. I'm honestly not the worst. In fact I'm actually somewhere around average. And that's the problem; I want to be the BEST.

Strengths:

Independently wealthy for my age
Willing to go out of my comfort zone to improve
Focused
Driven
Analytical
Relatively intelligent
Dress well
Work out, though not where I want to be yet

Weaknesses:

General Social Skills
Conversation
Women
Basically everything this forum teaches


Thank you
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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