"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need a Mentor/Coach, Will Pay

PersistenceIsKey

Don Juan
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Hey guys, if you know of any legit coaches, let me know.

Also, if YOU are an experienced, well rounded and personable guy who believes he is capable of teaching/coaching on real life situations and issues, PM me with your qualifications. Someone who has had a lot of social experience and is around 22-30/went to college would be optimal.

I've used coaching to overcome many challenges, including things in my professional life. I think the same logic can be applied to social life.

My personal background:

I'm a college student (Asian) in my second year. Struggling socially. I'm honestly not the worst. In fact I'm actually somewhere around average. And that's the problem; I want to be the BEST.

Strengths:

Independently wealthy for my age
Willing to go out of my comfort zone to improve
Focused
Driven
Analytical
Relatively intelligent
Dress well
Work out, though not where I want to be yet

Weaknesses:

General Social Skills
Conversation
Women
Basically everything this forum teaches


Thank you
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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