You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This made me laugh out loud!bornyesterday said:Tough one. You said you needed to initiate everything. He's awkward but seems to like it when you make a move while he cant himself. Depending on your and his age, which you havent disclosed yet, I think he's a virgin: he's scared and clueless.
So if you want to escalate, you need to do it yourself. Dont do it victorian style, be bold.
I lost my virginity with a very bold girl. She was touching me sexually after the second date and made no question about what her intentions were. If she wouldnt have been obvious nothing would have happened, I was such a chicken. I still have fond memories of her.
I hope you like virgins. Good luck.