“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Need a little phone call advice

Beffing

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so I dont talk on the phone that much to anybody, I just dont like to normally; so I think I need some feedback. I met this girl a couple nights ago at a bar, everything went textbook and I got her phone number and said I would call her so we could meet up for a drink. So tonight I am planning on going out for a little bit with a couple buddies, and since its thursday night on a college campus, Im sure that her and her girlfriends will be making their rounds. Now based on my sparse knowledge of phone etiquette, I was planning on calling her this evening around 10 (after I get out of work) and telling her where my friends and I are headed and if her and her friends are going the same way and would like to meet up. I feel that calling her and stating my prior plans first and requesting her and her friends company is better than "asking" her what shes doing and making it seem like shes my entire focus of the night. What do you think?

--Beffing
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ezily

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yeah I would go for it in the manner you described. It should make her think that you're not planning your night around her and she is just a part of it. Also, be sure to introduce yourself because she may not remember who you are.
 
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