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Need a little phone call advice

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Beffing

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so I dont talk on the phone that much to anybody, I just dont like to normally; so I think I need some feedback. I met this girl a couple nights ago at a bar, everything went textbook and I got her phone number and said I would call her so we could meet up for a drink. So tonight I am planning on going out for a little bit with a couple buddies, and since its thursday night on a college campus, Im sure that her and her girlfriends will be making their rounds. Now based on my sparse knowledge of phone etiquette, I was planning on calling her this evening around 10 (after I get out of work) and telling her where my friends and I are headed and if her and her friends are going the same way and would like to meet up. I feel that calling her and stating my prior plans first and requesting her and her friends company is better than "asking" her what shes doing and making it seem like shes my entire focus of the night. What do you think?

--Beffing
 

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yeah I would go for it in the manner you described. It should make her think that you're not planning your night around her and she is just a part of it. Also, be sure to introduce yourself because she may not remember who you are.
 
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