"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need a little of advice

Alanon

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It's been a while since I have visited the forums and I lost my old e-mail so I had to make a new account.

I'm a chef in a restaurant. A few weeks ago one of my co-workers quit and one of the waitresses wanted to throw him a going away party. She started inviting everybody and then after I told her I wasn't really interested in going she changed her mind and called it off.

Last night me and one of my friends were talking at work about a party we threw and she walked in to get some food and overheard our conversation and seemed upset that I hadn't invited her when she invited me to hers. I told her I'd invite her to the next one and sorta left it at that to brush her off. Today she came in early to do some prep work and we were sort of alone and she mimicked giving a hand job with whisk. I'm not really oblivious, but she has a boyfriend and I feel like she wants me at the same time. I haven't made any attempts to chase it, and I have the utmost confidence that I can hit it. I don't normally date girls that I work with, but I've worked in several restaurants over the years and screwed a bunch of waitresses. They come and go so I'm not really worried about work.

I actually kinda like this girl, but I'm having trouble deciding wether or not it's worth my time. She's smoking ass hot btw. I'm thinking she's simply not happy with the man she's with and my personality is rather appealing to most women. This is getting too long. Can you turn a slut into a decent woman I mean, I assume she's a slut if she's wanting to hang out with me and put herself into a situation to get boned because that's exactly what will happen? Should I just leave her alone and not try to steal her away from her boyfriend. Should I just run some game on her and hit it and walk away so she can go back to her boyfriend, or should I just wait til it passes and lose my edge over her. Just any tips or advice would be appreciated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MyTeamSupreme

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If she can do sluttery behind his back then she can do it behind yours as well...*****s cant be made into house wives

Fornicate the broad if you want, but dont catch any feelings
 

Diaforetikos

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MyTeamSupreme said:
If she can do sluttery behind his back then she can do it behind yours as well...*****s cant be made into house wives

Fornicate the broad if you want, but dont catch any feelings
^^^This
 

Kailex

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She's got a boyfriend and you are wondering if you can turn her into LTR material??? Read my signature.

BTW, you're a chef, she's a waitress, you already know who they would get rid of first if there is drama... so... game on... SANS FEELINGS.
 

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You can't change a slut...Spread her legs and hit it a time or two then move on..

cavedweller
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alanon

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Thanks guys. That's what I been pretty much thinking too. Idk wtf was going through my head . Wishful thinking I guess.
 
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