"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need a little of advice

Alanon

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It's been a while since I have visited the forums and I lost my old e-mail so I had to make a new account.

I'm a chef in a restaurant. A few weeks ago one of my co-workers quit and one of the waitresses wanted to throw him a going away party. She started inviting everybody and then after I told her I wasn't really interested in going she changed her mind and called it off.

Last night me and one of my friends were talking at work about a party we threw and she walked in to get some food and overheard our conversation and seemed upset that I hadn't invited her when she invited me to hers. I told her I'd invite her to the next one and sorta left it at that to brush her off. Today she came in early to do some prep work and we were sort of alone and she mimicked giving a hand job with whisk. I'm not really oblivious, but she has a boyfriend and I feel like she wants me at the same time. I haven't made any attempts to chase it, and I have the utmost confidence that I can hit it. I don't normally date girls that I work with, but I've worked in several restaurants over the years and screwed a bunch of waitresses. They come and go so I'm not really worried about work.

I actually kinda like this girl, but I'm having trouble deciding wether or not it's worth my time. She's smoking ass hot btw. I'm thinking she's simply not happy with the man she's with and my personality is rather appealing to most women. This is getting too long. Can you turn a slut into a decent woman I mean, I assume she's a slut if she's wanting to hang out with me and put herself into a situation to get boned because that's exactly what will happen? Should I just leave her alone and not try to steal her away from her boyfriend. Should I just run some game on her and hit it and walk away so she can go back to her boyfriend, or should I just wait til it passes and lose my edge over her. Just any tips or advice would be appreciated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MyTeamSupreme

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If she can do sluttery behind his back then she can do it behind yours as well...*****s cant be made into house wives

Fornicate the broad if you want, but dont catch any feelings
 

Diaforetikos

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MyTeamSupreme said:
If she can do sluttery behind his back then she can do it behind yours as well...*****s cant be made into house wives

Fornicate the broad if you want, but dont catch any feelings
^^^This
 

Kailex

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She's got a boyfriend and you are wondering if you can turn her into LTR material??? Read my signature.

BTW, you're a chef, she's a waitress, you already know who they would get rid of first if there is drama... so... game on... SANS FEELINGS.
 

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You can't change a slut...Spread her legs and hit it a time or two then move on..

cavedweller
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alanon

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Thanks guys. That's what I been pretty much thinking too. Idk wtf was going through my head . Wishful thinking I guess.
 
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