"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ in Progress

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alright, so i finally manned up and asked a girl for her number after some good convo and she seemed really interested in me. she gave me her number and that was that. then i ****ed up, i called her the next night, she didn't pick up so i left a message saying that i had fun hanging with her and was going away for the weekend but would liek to hang with her the next week and told her that i would call her when i would be arround, left my number and then heard nothing. just wondering how bad i screwed up and since she didn't even call back should i bother to call againn? any and all advice is welcomed
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Eccentric

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Don't call. You don't want to me Mikey from Swingers. Move on, if she calls back that's great. If not, well who cares, you already moved on.
 
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Wyldfire said:
You should just go to a different site. You won't get help here. You will only be encouraged to be angry and bitter and wallow in self-pity.
Stop with the negativity!

Are you sure you called the right number? Maybe the message was deleted by accident or someone else received it and did not give it to her.

Call a week later, no sooner, to be sure.
 

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i'll give her one more call, it will have been a week, and if i get the voicemail again, no message this time, it will just be NEXT!
 
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