I met this girl at a bar, we talked for a bit and we had a drink together. As the Bar closed we all went outside, i got her number. Her and her friend invited me to go to a club, but i had no shoes to wear. So i ended the night there. Later that week she texts me asking me what i was up to, i told her i had no plans and she replied saying that her friends are going to a bar. There was really no actual invite, so i ended up just staying home. We went out a couple days later to a club, everything was G. Only problem is when i talk to her in person and on the phone it seems like shes not interested, but when she texts me she seems interested. Shes about 2 1/2 years older then me. What do you guys think?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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