"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ds1ur1f

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I met this girl at a bar, we talked for a bit and we had a drink together. As the Bar closed we all went outside, i got her number. Her and her friend invited me to go to a club, but i had no shoes to wear. So i ended the night there. Later that week she texts me asking me what i was up to, i told her i had no plans and she replied saying that her friends are going to a bar. There was really no actual invite, so i ended up just staying home. We went out a couple days later to a club, everything was G. Only problem is when i talk to her in person and on the phone it seems like shes not interested, but when she texts me she seems interested. Shes about 2 1/2 years older then me. What do you guys think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jay Jay

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I think wondering if a girl likes you or not is a waste of time and energy.

Either decide she likes you and act accordingly

or

Decide to MAKE her like you. How do you do this? That's what this site is for.

JJ
 

bigjohnson

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ds1ur1f said:
...., i told her i had no plans and she replied saying ....
Rule #17 - No matter what, you always had plans. You might be able to cancel if the offer is good, or maybe counter-offer.

Other than that you did OK I guess. Wait for the advice of the masters in 5, 4, 3, 2, ...
 
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