need a little fix up...

[texmex23]

Background: Asked this girl to go to the movies this saturday ( this happened last saturday) well she said she didn't know and then i told her to give me her number so i could call her to see if she could go. So she gave me the number. So me and my friend were there with her and her friend. I was flirtin with her and talkin to her friend and they said that we should go to a movie that they were goin to see like in thirty minutes, but i couldn't stay so i told her that i couldn't.

Fast forward to today: I called her and she said that she was sry that she couldn't go cuase she had to go to a b-day party. So i was like ok thats kool...we said bye and hung up.

So what i wanted to know is when should i call her back to see if she can do anything next weekend. And what to say so i wont sound needy or AFC. (i know i shoulda done this this time i called her but i guess i had a brain fart).

Thanks...

 

[Docs]

Next wednesday, at least that'd be what I'd do to be safe

 

[The Master Disaster]

If you want her to think your needy call her right now.
If you want her to think your a DJ call her right now.
It really doesn't matter when you call her its more about how you present yourself. Start a conversation a good one then just offer her something like. I was going to the movies with some friends you want to come? Then if you don't want to go with your friends just pick her up and say your friends couldn't make it thats the best way for a new guy to get into the field low risk high reward.

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

Originally posted by Docs
Next wednesday, at least that'd be what I'd do to be safe

Wednesday or Thursday are fine

 

[texmex23]

kool, now i got the day to call her so what do i say...something like "hey, last time i called you i completely forgot to ask if your free next weekend since your o so busy last weekend"...or if yall have any ideas

 

[Docs]

I wouldn't even mention last week. Just focus on the future ^^. (of course..talk to her for a few minutes..)

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

say something like. "I know how badly you want to see me, so I'll give you saturday"

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

now a couple more basics

if she says she has plans, since you are "giving" her that day, she damn well better spend it with you! if she says no, don't hang out with her for a while

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

I would be pesimistic right now because if she wanted to meet up with you she would have probably told you a better time when she siad she was busy, but you can still try, theres no harm in it.

 

[MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO]

I wouldnt call her thursday. Monday is perfect time for you to call.

 

[texmex23]

thanks....