"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need a little college-campus help (getting annoying with this hb9.5)

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Don Juan
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This isn't a rant or some ****, so hear me out please.

Basically put, college campus. There's the extremely beautiful, I'd say hb9 regular, and 9.5 on days she comes a little more 'spiffier' (i.e. hair done exceptionally nice, etc).

Thing is, everytime we see each other, we always make eye contact and she definitely shows interest, but it just ends at that. Eye contact is all that happens. At other times, we walk by each other, not breaking eye contact until we just walk by shoulder to shoulder and lose sight of each other.

See, now in theory, she is definitely interested (from the way she looks at me to the way she makes eye contact with me), but for some damned reason I can't stop by and start a conversation with her (I start conversations with girls with little to no trouble).

But this situation here is becoming annoying.

So what do I do?

If we're walking in the opposite directions, should I stop her and say "hey! you're going in the wrong direction. You're supposed to walk with ME to class that way", *smirk* ....basically asking her to walk me to class and converse with her on the way (doesn't matter if I have class or not, in no class case, I'll just take her to the coffee area if she is free of course).

Or do I wait and find her sitting in the coffee zone of the college again (like I did once), and go sit by her, starting a conversation?

Advice me and/or give new suggestions.
This one's a little of a hard scenerio for me, I kind of lose my confidence when I see her. (Nothing major, but enough that I haven't talked to her in the 30ish times I've seen her).

Fire away guys!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Allurre

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You think too much, and you're scared of approaching.

Don't wait for that 'right opportunity' to get at her.

Create the opportunity. She's already interested, just go in for the kill.

Ask her what's up... how her day is, and take it from there. Stop foreseeing any consequences; see only success.
 
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