“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Need a little advice

WORKEROUTER

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There's a girl I'm trying to DJ, but it's not really working out.

I think the main problem is that I'm not able to "flirt" very well. I need to be the leader and initiator of a conversation, as well as kino, but I find it difficult.

I have definately expressed that I'm interested in her, but I come across too strong. This works against me particularly in this situation because the girl is fairly conservative with her thoughts and won't just jump right into things.

I need some suggestions on how to improve this situation, as well as improving my skills in general.

Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sanjuro

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I'd just look for other game for now, get some experience, and come back to her later.
 

Porky

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good first post Sanjuro.
 

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Originally posted by Sanjuro
I'd just look for other game for now, get some experience, and come back to her later.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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