"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need a little advice

WORKEROUTER

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There's a girl I'm trying to DJ, but it's not really working out.

I think the main problem is that I'm not able to "flirt" very well. I need to be the leader and initiator of a conversation, as well as kino, but I find it difficult.

I have definately expressed that I'm interested in her, but I come across too strong. This works against me particularly in this situation because the girl is fairly conservative with her thoughts and won't just jump right into things.

I need some suggestions on how to improve this situation, as well as improving my skills in general.

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sanjuro

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I'd just look for other game for now, get some experience, and come back to her later.
 

Porky

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good first post Sanjuro.
 

LikRetsam

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Originally posted by Sanjuro
I'd just look for other game for now, get some experience, and come back to her later.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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