"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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need a little advice on amping my sexuality a little

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BongDuy

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so i've been talking to a few girls, and they've introduced me to their friends. this has led me to meet a bunch of new ppl in college.
this isnt a problem at all, and i can talk to the girls no problem, i make them laugh, i try to dig a little deeper to build some deep rapport and what not. kino is there, all playful, nothing sexual. ( pushing, tickling, no hand holding or cuddling )

I was wondering how i could project a more sexual vibe. would this mean that i would have to be more direct? ( saying " you're looking really cute right now") a little bit of advice please
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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Sexuality is something that happens when you're relaxed and comfortable in your own skin. It's a quiet confidence that let's you up the "flirt level" with women and they feel it in a positive way, not a creepy way.

Everyone is different so it's really hard to say what would work for you.

I give off a cool, masculine and strong sort of vibe when I'm out in public... But what has really worked for me is that I flip it over and show a softer, sweeter, in touch and more in tune side of me when I'm alone with the girl. Not wussy/chumpish, but just a whole other dimension that shows her I'm a man of great depth. Strong and bold but still affectionate and warm.

Sexuality comes from within, and I strongly believe that you have to find out what works for you, on your own.
 
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I see your cunccern, but don’t worry you are on the right track. It seems like you doing well with building pleasant vibes. Now the only thing left is to spark attraction.

The number one mistake that guys make when they to talk to women is being too nice. Women generally love when men are nice to them, can coming off as nice actually become boring. You bet.

The truth is that women need to be engaged by a little of both when it comes to an interesting conversation. Men often agree or laugh at any thing that comes remotely close to making sense, but that is not engaging. Women quickly lose interest if they are not opposed by your point of view. By sharing your outlook they can be drawn to you instead of simply being reassured by your complements.

By this I don’t mean you have to be a jerk to be attractive. I’m simply saying that women need to be interested amongst other things in order to feel attraction. Good luck and stay well.:up:
 
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