"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Need a good response, trying to get the hang of this.

jaybeezi

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First, I joined a while ago but haven't been here in awhile so...

I've been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks. Kissing, feeling, etc... (no sex yet)
anyway as a joke she put "pose naked luv the cam" as her occupation on Myspace. I sent her a message saying:

"lovin the new occupation, one of these days you'll have to show me what you do at work..."

she responded with

"yeah maybe one of these days i'll have 2 demonstrate wat it is that i actually do. but...........maybe u'll find out mayb u wont. u'll just have to keep wonderin..... and fantasize about meee...................hahaha ; )"

I need a good response to this... any advice?

Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Before I get into anything, I'd like to preface my comment by saying I'm a recovering AFC, so take my advice with a grain of salt.

I say don't respond to this comment. It would be deterimental and chumpish. You already showed an interest in this occupation, and she responded quite positively. Responding would be like driving it into the ground.

Well there you have it. Thats what I think. Agree or disagree, it's just a different point of view.
 

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Originally posted by jaybeezi
First, I joined a while ago but haven't been here in awhile so...

I've been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks. Kissing, feeling, etc... (no sex yet)
anyway as a joke she put "pose naked luv the cam" as her occupation on Myspace. I sent her a message saying:

"lovin the new occupation, one of these days you'll have to show me what you do at work..."

she responded with

"yeah maybe one of these days i'll have 2 demonstrate wat it is that i actually do. but...........maybe u'll find out mayb u wont. u'll just have to keep wonderin..... and fantasize about meee...................hahaha ; )"

I need a good response to this... any advice?

Thanks.
The whole"maybe you will see oneday or maybe not" thing means she hasnt determined yet if she will let you nail her,but she hasnt ruled it out. Come on if she is naked in front of you and you dont nail her something is wrong or your gay. If she left the door open walk in. I would not respond to it and leave it how it is. Now get out there and butter her up so you can nail her.
 

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this is a test.

Respond with:

"You pressume that I'm fantasizing about you, woman please ... i have better things to do with my time. Now stop thinking about me and get your work done."
 

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Originally posted by rascal
this is a test.

Respond with:

"You pressume that I'm fantasizing about you, woman please ... i have better things to do with my time. Now stop thinking about me and get your work done."
I take back my comment,I would respond with exactly what rascal said.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jaybeezi

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Originally posted by rascal
this is a test.

Respond with:

"You pressume that I'm fantasizing about you, woman please ... i have better things to do with my time. Now stop thinking about me and get your work done."
lol, I was thinking something along those lines, but I didn't quite have it all together, thanks.

I'll post her response when I get it.
 
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