"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need a good response, trying to get the hang of this.

jaybeezi

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First, I joined a while ago but haven't been here in awhile so...

I've been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks. Kissing, feeling, etc... (no sex yet)
anyway as a joke she put "pose naked luv the cam" as her occupation on Myspace. I sent her a message saying:

"lovin the new occupation, one of these days you'll have to show me what you do at work..."

she responded with

"yeah maybe one of these days i'll have 2 demonstrate wat it is that i actually do. but...........maybe u'll find out mayb u wont. u'll just have to keep wonderin..... and fantasize about meee...................hahaha ; )"

I need a good response to this... any advice?

Thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Before I get into anything, I'd like to preface my comment by saying I'm a recovering AFC, so take my advice with a grain of salt.

I say don't respond to this comment. It would be deterimental and chumpish. You already showed an interest in this occupation, and she responded quite positively. Responding would be like driving it into the ground.

Well there you have it. Thats what I think. Agree or disagree, it's just a different point of view.
 

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Originally posted by jaybeezi
First, I joined a while ago but haven't been here in awhile so...

I've been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks. Kissing, feeling, etc... (no sex yet)
anyway as a joke she put "pose naked luv the cam" as her occupation on Myspace. I sent her a message saying:

"lovin the new occupation, one of these days you'll have to show me what you do at work..."

she responded with

"yeah maybe one of these days i'll have 2 demonstrate wat it is that i actually do. but...........maybe u'll find out mayb u wont. u'll just have to keep wonderin..... and fantasize about meee...................hahaha ; )"

I need a good response to this... any advice?

Thanks.
The whole"maybe you will see oneday or maybe not" thing means she hasnt determined yet if she will let you nail her,but she hasnt ruled it out. Come on if she is naked in front of you and you dont nail her something is wrong or your gay. If she left the door open walk in. I would not respond to it and leave it how it is. Now get out there and butter her up so you can nail her.
 

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this is a test.

Respond with:

"You pressume that I'm fantasizing about you, woman please ... i have better things to do with my time. Now stop thinking about me and get your work done."
 

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Originally posted by rascal
this is a test.

Respond with:

"You pressume that I'm fantasizing about you, woman please ... i have better things to do with my time. Now stop thinking about me and get your work done."
I take back my comment,I would respond with exactly what rascal said.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jaybeezi

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Originally posted by rascal
this is a test.

Respond with:

"You pressume that I'm fantasizing about you, woman please ... i have better things to do with my time. Now stop thinking about me and get your work done."
lol, I was thinking something along those lines, but I didn't quite have it all together, thanks.

I'll post her response when I get it.
 
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