"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Need a good response, trying to get the hang of this.

jaybeezi

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First, I joined a while ago but haven't been here in awhile so...

I've been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks. Kissing, feeling, etc... (no sex yet)
anyway as a joke she put "pose naked luv the cam" as her occupation on Myspace. I sent her a message saying:

"lovin the new occupation, one of these days you'll have to show me what you do at work..."

she responded with

"yeah maybe one of these days i'll have 2 demonstrate wat it is that i actually do. but...........maybe u'll find out mayb u wont. u'll just have to keep wonderin..... and fantasize about meee...................hahaha ; )"

I need a good response to this... any advice?

Thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Before I get into anything, I'd like to preface my comment by saying I'm a recovering AFC, so take my advice with a grain of salt.

I say don't respond to this comment. It would be deterimental and chumpish. You already showed an interest in this occupation, and she responded quite positively. Responding would be like driving it into the ground.

Well there you have it. Thats what I think. Agree or disagree, it's just a different point of view.
 

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Originally posted by jaybeezi
First, I joined a while ago but haven't been here in awhile so...

I've been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks. Kissing, feeling, etc... (no sex yet)
anyway as a joke she put "pose naked luv the cam" as her occupation on Myspace. I sent her a message saying:

"lovin the new occupation, one of these days you'll have to show me what you do at work..."

she responded with

"yeah maybe one of these days i'll have 2 demonstrate wat it is that i actually do. but...........maybe u'll find out mayb u wont. u'll just have to keep wonderin..... and fantasize about meee...................hahaha ; )"

I need a good response to this... any advice?

Thanks.
The whole"maybe you will see oneday or maybe not" thing means she hasnt determined yet if she will let you nail her,but she hasnt ruled it out. Come on if she is naked in front of you and you dont nail her something is wrong or your gay. If she left the door open walk in. I would not respond to it and leave it how it is. Now get out there and butter her up so you can nail her.
 

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this is a test.

Respond with:

"You pressume that I'm fantasizing about you, woman please ... i have better things to do with my time. Now stop thinking about me and get your work done."
 

blinkwatt

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Originally posted by rascal
this is a test.

Respond with:

"You pressume that I'm fantasizing about you, woman please ... i have better things to do with my time. Now stop thinking about me and get your work done."
I take back my comment,I would respond with exactly what rascal said.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jaybeezi

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Originally posted by rascal
this is a test.

Respond with:

"You pressume that I'm fantasizing about you, woman please ... i have better things to do with my time. Now stop thinking about me and get your work done."
lol, I was thinking something along those lines, but I didn't quite have it all together, thanks.

I'll post her response when I get it.
 
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