"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need a frekin fast answer now plz

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ignore her.

Let her come to you tomorrow morning or something (assuming she will ask you again.)
 

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So shall I just logoff without answering her? (I know I should but, just need a confirmation from another guy)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hehe for how long should I ignore her?
 

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hahahaaa... listen to the Jerk.
He's hittin the nail on th head.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Today, I've been ignoring her for the hole day. I haven't even looked at her. But on the last class, my eyes caught her's and I can see she was frustratedly angry at me. Tomorrow's her birthday. Should I ignore her anymore? She didn't do any approaches to me, just one small, but that one doesn't count.
 

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When your eyes caught hers, did you continue to gaze, or did you give a quick smirk and look away?

Elaborate my friend...

As far as the birthday goes, I'm clueless. Someone help lol!
 

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I was in a situation were our eyes couldn't hold contact, cause I was walking out a doorway, so we didn't had eye-contact long, but I can see her being frustrated. I'll see what happens when I log on to msn, if she says something to me... But when we had contact, I could see the frustration. Plz help!
 

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can anyone help me? should I just go on , do kino and such, or should I let here "take over"? We won't see eachother in 2 weeks, if we don't set up a meeting at christmas break so, what should I do?
 

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Definetely do not be afraid to make eye contact and smirk a bit. Let her know that you're interested but remember that she has to earn YOU. You're the prize.

Interest her, be mysterious and let her wonder away.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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there is a difference between acting disconserned and acting like a jerk who likes to play games.

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you need a major overhoul dude.
 
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Ignore - no don't ignore - ignore, wait don't ignore - Ignore, wait -- Oh I don't know??? :confused:

The kid is from Sweden - this explains everything!:rolleyes:
 

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I haven't read your other thread but from what everyone is saying, I would also block her on MSN when you get the chance so that you avoid this dilemna in the future and the only way she can contact you is in real life.
 

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okay, so I'm just letting her approach me now, helping her to converse with me in the beginning, look deep into her eyes and apply some kino (if she is worth it) tomorrow. I'm gonna say "Congratioulations, what did you get?" and look her deep into her eyes, when I got the chance. Then I'll see what happens. Otherwise I'll NEXT her.

sounds like a good idea?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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