"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need a frekin fast answer now plz

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ignore her.

Let her come to you tomorrow morning or something (assuming she will ask you again.)
 

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So shall I just logoff without answering her? (I know I should but, just need a confirmation from another guy)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hehe for how long should I ignore her?
 

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hahahaaa... listen to the Jerk.
He's hittin the nail on th head.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Today, I've been ignoring her for the hole day. I haven't even looked at her. But on the last class, my eyes caught her's and I can see she was frustratedly angry at me. Tomorrow's her birthday. Should I ignore her anymore? She didn't do any approaches to me, just one small, but that one doesn't count.
 

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When your eyes caught hers, did you continue to gaze, or did you give a quick smirk and look away?

Elaborate my friend...

As far as the birthday goes, I'm clueless. Someone help lol!
 

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I was in a situation were our eyes couldn't hold contact, cause I was walking out a doorway, so we didn't had eye-contact long, but I can see her being frustrated. I'll see what happens when I log on to msn, if she says something to me... But when we had contact, I could see the frustration. Plz help!
 

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can anyone help me? should I just go on , do kino and such, or should I let here "take over"? We won't see eachother in 2 weeks, if we don't set up a meeting at christmas break so, what should I do?
 

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Definetely do not be afraid to make eye contact and smirk a bit. Let her know that you're interested but remember that she has to earn YOU. You're the prize.

Interest her, be mysterious and let her wonder away.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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there is a difference between acting disconserned and acting like a jerk who likes to play games.

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you need a major overhoul dude.
 
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Ignore - no don't ignore - ignore, wait don't ignore - Ignore, wait -- Oh I don't know??? :confused:

The kid is from Sweden - this explains everything!:rolleyes:
 

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I haven't read your other thread but from what everyone is saying, I would also block her on MSN when you get the chance so that you avoid this dilemna in the future and the only way she can contact you is in real life.
 

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okay, so I'm just letting her approach me now, helping her to converse with me in the beginning, look deep into her eyes and apply some kino (if she is worth it) tomorrow. I'm gonna say "Congratioulations, what did you get?" and look her deep into her eyes, when I got the chance. Then I'll see what happens. Otherwise I'll NEXT her.

sounds like a good idea?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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