"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need a Date For Saturday

Eiljwa

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I have a double date scheduled for Saturday, and I think it will be a lot of fun if I can find a date. There are two girls I could potentially take(friends), but I was just wondering if someone could give me a step by step or something for a meeting a new girland taking her in so small an amount of time. There are also a few girls I have talked before, that are a possibility, I just don't have their numbers so it would be hard to get a hold of them ( I know where some of them work).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ElStud

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Not gonna find a date here, unless you're into that. :D
 

Alkali

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Hi, my name's Kevin. I like long walks on the beach and when a man treats me right.

Why didn't I marry a salesman...then I'd have nice things.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Eiljwa

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Sorry I wasn't specific, but you didn't have to be gay about it(get it? anyways...). I need a date for Saturday and I was wondering if you guys could give me some specific advice about meeting a new girl, and taking her on a date so soon.
 

miniPIMPIN

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man yall aint gotta be @ssholes about the ****.

go to the mall.

get some numbers.

call the hottest one and ask for a date.

if she says no say "allright well it was nice talking to you" and hang up

call the next hottest tilll u get sumthin.
 
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