"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need a Date For Saturday

Eiljwa

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I have a double date scheduled for Saturday, and I think it will be a lot of fun if I can find a date. There are two girls I could potentially take(friends), but I was just wondering if someone could give me a step by step or something for a meeting a new girland taking her in so small an amount of time. There are also a few girls I have talked before, that are a possibility, I just don't have their numbers so it would be hard to get a hold of them ( I know where some of them work).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ElStud

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Not gonna find a date here, unless you're into that. :D
 

Alkali

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Hi, my name's Kevin. I like long walks on the beach and when a man treats me right.

Why didn't I marry a salesman...then I'd have nice things.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eiljwa

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Sorry I wasn't specific, but you didn't have to be gay about it(get it? anyways...). I need a date for Saturday and I was wondering if you guys could give me some specific advice about meeting a new girl, and taking her on a date so soon.
 

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man yall aint gotta be @ssholes about the ****.

go to the mall.

get some numbers.

call the hottest one and ask for a date.

if she says no say "allright well it was nice talking to you" and hang up

call the next hottest tilll u get sumthin.
 
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