"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need a comeback

coolness89

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Ok guys, I was hitting on this girl bigtime, she knew i liked her, and i knew for a fact she liked me too. But for some reason shes playing hard to get and a bit bit**y too, and personally I don't take crap like this anytime.

Anyways she said something on my facebook, which I found to be quite impolite. I would like to reply with something like "get over urself miss, you aint that good lookin anyways". Something thats subtle yet harsh.

ANything I can say thats better than my comeback?

Essentially, the main thing she said on facebook is she doesnt want to hang with me. I asked her to chill with me once, she rejected.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MisterMcGee

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dont be a sourpuss.
"get over yourself miss"
Why would you say that? You asked her to hang out, she rejected. Don't try to be all "uuhhh never mind you're not hot anyways!"
Just be suave and cool about it, dont let it get your panties in a twist.
 

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Ill let you use my comeback which drives girls crazy

...ready??


thats cool...
 

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Part of me says reply. and another part says don't bother saying anything(I think you guys make a point, I will stick to this).
But here's the thing, i see her at college everyday, should I not bother saying Hi as well anymore? What kind of attitude should I be giving her. Don't say treat her like your friends...i have enough friends, i dont need one more lol.

thanks guys
 

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dont get all butt hurt now and decide to give her the cold shoulder at college. Just act as if the message never occurred. Dont treat her nicer than you did before or meaner. If you see she has any interest in you you can tease her, use a girly voice and mock her message, initiate a quick flirt and leave. Dont hang around her like a house fly around a garbage can so you dont come off needy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes! Charm&style and donS..u guys know ur sh*t..lol
thanks for the advice guys.
On facebook, I won't bother replying to the last message she sent. And in person, just a hi will suffice.
 

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yeah, best thing to do - don't react, it'll show your insecurities

a girl once texted me saying she hoped i ended up on the street.

i texted back "ok.. thanks"

calling her a ***** would've made her feel good
 

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****UPDATE*****

I saw her today guys. She said hi, tried to hold a convo, but I said hey and started walking away. I dont get it. YOu act all rude on facebook, but in person you are smiling?? WTF is this...is she playing hard to get or what? I dont get it...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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coolness89 said:
****UPDATE*****

I saw her today guys. She said hi, tried to hold a convo, but I said hey and started walking away. I dont get it. YOu act all rude on facebook, but in person you are smiling?? WTF is this...is she playing hard to get or what? I dont get it...
Who cares whether you "get it" or not? This is ridiculous. How long do you plan on playing this "cat and mouse" game with her? Tell her to get lost. Let her find some other dude to frustrate and play games with. I bet you that once she sees that you're a man,and that you're not going to put up with her little childish games,then either she's straighten up if she's serious about dating you,or she'll move on. Either one of these two options would be good for me.
 

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DJDamage said:
Its fvcking facebook, she probably wrote like 50 of those messages and doesn't remember.

Stick to the real world comeback interactions.
For real...
 
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